Child mental health is fundamental to the learning process. As educators, we face numerous challenges every day. How we address these challenges can significantly impact our students. Are we merely masking the problem, or are we actively helping students resolve it? The answer lies in our approach—particularly in how we frame our questions and interactions.Even with the best intentions, if we fail to use the right words or tone when questioning, we risk hindering communication and achieving the desired outcome. So, how can we improve? The first step is to pause and reflect: Am I listening to understand, or am I listening to respond? Listening is an art—once mastered, it becomes a powerful tool for fostering meaningful connections and achieving positive outcomes.